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LOFT LIFE: Changing my reality 
Nov. 2, 2012 9:22 am 
Updated: Feb. 19, 2013 11:28 am

LOFT LIFE: A new reality

My husband and I finally worked out our decision to replace our T-Mobile serviced- non-Internet touch phones with AT&T service for the iPhone. This was a huge decision really, because we are of an age group that still thinks a phone is a phone, and that paying more than $150 per month, not to mention hundreds for the phone itself, is just not within the realm of practicality.
   I have many friends who brag that they are not on Facebook, not using the Internet except for an occasional email, and not spending their time in technology. They read, they garden, they visit grandchildren, they travel, they watch television, and they talk on their land-line phones.
   I, on the other hand, am not such an anti-tech-y. I actually pride myself on thinking young, keeping up with technology relatively speaking, and enjoying the benefits of international communication, free calls to Spain through SKYPE, Face-timing my L.A. daughter, syncing my MacBookPro, my iPad and my new iPhone.
   I do confess, even with my somewhat savvy approach, I was hit with a blow to the gut, when the AT&T salesperson, Oliver, suggested 1G would not be enough to share with two phones, and also that I could actually save money by including my iPad in the data plan we were purchasing, which would only add $50 a month. The iPad data plan by itself would cost $30 for every month in which we were traveling and wanting 3G of data capacity. Whereas including it with the phones would only add $10 per month and with the 4G for the 3 devices, should be adequate, since we don’t use our phones for movies, TV shows or other data rich media. I am considering, however, podcasting from my iPad, and that might change the game radically. For now though, we email pictures, use GPS app maps, and browse the Web for news, travel info and other practicalities when we travel.    The rest of the time we are on Wi-Fi. (Anybody lost yet?)
Oliver made a throwaway statement, when I balked at spending more than $150 for a phone bill, that maybe we all need to change our “reality.” That got me thinking.
Truly, I am willing to examine my reality. I depend on technology. I used my old phone for calls, message texting, viewing the date and time, setting an alarm now and then, maybe using the tools (calculator and stopwatch) and not much else. 
   But with an iPhone, things have, in reality, changed dramatically. Now my phone is synced to my MacBookPro and my iPad, and I can quickly get a message, check weather (more extensively with an app than with just seeing the daily temperatures on my old, non-Internet, phone). I can show my FB pictures to friends without having to load in my iPhotos, I can listen to music, I can have retailers scan purchases, I can Face-time my daughter and others, and on and on and on. If I wish to, which I don’t at present, I can watch a movie or a TV show, I can purchase things, read my Kindle, my Nook, my eReader, I can sync my calendars and appointments, and on and on.   

   So my new reality: this is not a phone. This is a mobile media center. Yes, so is my iPad, and in some ways they are redundant. But, having that choice of screen size is also a benefit. I can travel with both, and use whichever is more convenient. For instance, the iPad was really handy in viewing maps on the GPS app as we traveled from Princeton, N.J. to Connecticut on a route that was altered from our original plan, for which we had printed maps. Using the GPS on the larger screen, that turned to a black screen with lighted maps for night driving, was amazing. I don’t want a GPS that is stuck to the windshield with adhesive, partly because it is a common cause of auto break-ins and theft. This GPS goes with me not my car.
If I want to get a list of local restaurants when we travel, the smaller iPhone screen in just fine. If I want to get on a plane, my iPhone has my boarding pass, so no more paper. I can load my Starbucks card, I can transfer funds from bank to bank, and I can take really good pictures and email them to my laptop. 
   As I adapt my life around new technology, I have to think that perhaps the money I am saving from the new way of living, equals if not surpasses the increase in my phone bill. For instance, I seldom use my printer, when I have a screen to view, which saves on printer toner and paper. I no longer need to buy checks, because I only use bill pay. This has the added advantage of my not having to shred bank statements, etc. constantly, because I am on paperless systems. I seldom mail a letter, because my friends mostly seem to enjoy texting, emailing, and calling. Really even emailing is becoming far less common, since texting is shorter and faster. That distresses my two or three friends who like the snail mail thing, but I try to accommodate them, even though my letters and notes are far fewer than if they would allow for technology.
   OK, so what is the point here? I am changing my reality. I am going to enjoy the benefits of iPhone and not feel bad about paying for it. I will readjust our budget to accommodate more than doubling our phone bill. In the end, I actually expect to save money. I will not be buying paper books, CD music, or software for most things. I will use my free Kindle books, the occasional Kindle or Nook purchase, the library, and use Pandora and my vast collection of already purchased iTunes and CDs. I will not be purchasing any DVD’s, since Netflix, Amazon Instant Video, You Tube and other streaming sources fill that need just fine. Those things alone will save hundreds per year over what we used to spend. (We can’t find those diamond needles for the stereo anymore.) 
   I can compare purchasing many things--for instance the Amazon screen shields, which are incredibly cheaper than those at the AT&T store. I had instant confirmation of that online and so could easily pass up impulse buying of a screen shield at $25 instead of $6. Two day free shipping makes the Amazon purchase very convenient.
   I also noticed my new MacBookPro does not have an internal DVD/CD drive. I found that curious at first until I realized the rationale. It is thin and the drive takes up space. And, I have not had much reason to insert a CD or DVD lately, since most of my viewing and listening is from streaming, as mentioned above, and most software is downloadable from the Internet. 
   Life is changing. We must decide whether to go with it, even stay ahead of it a little on the cutting edge, or to dig in our heels and insist on the “good old days,” which, frankly, weren’t always so good.
   That reality shift actually began some time ago, without my realizing it, and is why I started this blog. I am a journalist. Newspapers are dying. I don’t want to die with them. 
   Thanks for reading. As usual, would love your comments on your realities concerning the new world of technology.

Nov. 2, 2012 7:06 pm
I had a cell phone for about 10 years. two years ago I cut the cord. I now use NetTalk and pay $29.95 per year for home phone service. I do miss the cell phone to talk to the wife when I am out and about but I don't miss the bills.
Nov. 2, 2012 10:55 pm
Marjorie, you're right, either go with it or be lost! I've got a cell phone & landline (it's incl in my cable/internet svc)...just upgraded from my basic flip phone to a smartphone (not an Iphone though :)) and suddenly realized it is smarter than I am! Love my computer and all technology, but sometimes I wonder at how fast things change! Hard to reconcile how we actually managed to live full, rewarding lives without the latest gadgets!! Life was better in alot of ways, but I like this instant stuff!! ?
Nov. 2, 2012 10:56 pm
Oddly, my own tech journey is errily similar to yours. The two biggest differences would be that I refuse to do Facebook, who needs all that refuse. Secondly, we are really close to losing the land line. We hardly ever use it and more often just for the occasional fax. I ixnayed my business line last year and didn't feel a bump. Everyone used my cel # anyways so that was a good move. Between the Iphone and the Ipad, and the wireless home network et al, we are completely plugged in and loving how the tech enriches our lives. Just an aside, I am finding the offerings from Netflix and the smart TV movie offerings to be repetitive and often stale. I prefer going to the video store so I want that dvd drive in my laptop and my desktop. I suspect that you'll find that most of the people on here embrace technology far more than your average bear. I mean, it takes a certain amount of savvy to use tech enough to arrive at a place where you're blogging on AR so the rest of your tech ought to be right there also. Good subject.
Nov. 5, 2012 7:05 am
I was forced into Blackberry Hell when I was employed, now just retired. Had to turn in the monster and I am so glad I did. I was chained to it. It was my master. Now I am using a $20 trac phone and I buy minutes qrtly. It averages out to $7 month for my useage. I can text and have voice mail. I guessit is all in your perspective. If I want to know what the weather is like, I look out the window for free.
Dec. 3, 2012 9:27 am
Yes, I hear you. I have a cell for business as well as personal queries and am expect to be "on call" to run my business. So yes, that is a bit different. Someday I will simplify, I am sure.
Feb. 19, 2013 11:28 am
Covergirl I love your weather station. Very cute. Thanks for reading and commenting. Randy, I just don't watch that many videos, but I do miss having the selection I want.
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