It's all in the planning and presentation; the trick is to make it look effortless.
Party Basics
Whether you're planning a big event or a cozy get-together, the basic steps are still the same. It's up to you to decide how simple or elaborate the details get.
The bottom line? A great party takes on a life of its own. All you can do is set the stage, anticipate the needs of your guests, and let everyone get on with having a good time.
Don't Panic
If you're relaxed, you put your guests at ease.
- Prep dishes ahead of time to avoid a last second kitchen crunch.
- Give yourself time to shower and change before the party.
- Start the music before the doorbell rings so you can greet the first comers without sprinting off to press "play."
- Lavish attention on guests as they arrive, set them up with drinks, introduce them to someone friendly, and move on to the next new people. This encourages mixing and mingling. At some point, play mix master again.