Sip & See
Sep. 15, 2009 6:24 am
Updated: Oct. 24, 2009 7:35 am
August 18, 2009 my youngest daughter gave birth to an 8"11oz, 20 inches long baby girl. This is my 6th grandchild, only the 2nd girl. Our other granddaughter is 15, so you know we were all thrilled an over the moon that we had another girl, well everyone but the 15 year old who had liked her status as the only girl. Saturday, August 8th was my daughter's 30th birthday and we had planned a "Sprinkle" Baby Shower for her on that day. On Thursday, August 6th, at her Dr's visit, she was told that she would probably have the baby that weekend. The decision was made to postpone the "Sprinkle". After all, we didn't want her to go into labor at the shower. Trying to be prepared, I had already baked and made some of the food. I froze a little of it but most of it we just had to eat. Katie, my daughter already had a son, who is three. Because she already had had a shower for him and she had all the big stuff you need with a baby, we were having a "Sprinkle" instead of "Shower", meaning just bring small gifts. In some parts of the country and world the custom is for showers for only the first child, which is OK, however (I think), every baby is special and deserving of a celebration of their birth. So now we have the baby and need a celebration. Hmm? What do I do? I started looking online for some thing to do. Tea? Luncheon? Couples? and I found it! The perfect idea! "Sip & See"! It states that a Sip & See is a lovely, old Southern tradition, (Now I was born in GA and lived here all my life and I had never heard of such a tradition!) where people come and "Sip" some beverages and "See" the baby. Sounds good to me. "Sip & See's" can be used for other things to like for a visiting relative, to celebrate an engagement, or even as a kind of house warming party. From the description, it can be as formal or as laid back as you like. The main requirements seem to be that there be something to "Sip" (alcoholic or not) and some thing to "See." It has even been used for girls to get together to "See" the new boyfriend! (Also, called a "Meet & Greet.") Another us mentioned, is another excuse for the bride to be to have a gathering by having people come in to "See" all the wedding gifts. It can be held Open House Style. Wow! I like this idea. It's a great way for friends, family, co-workers, and neighbors to come meet the new baby. A little etiquette for the day... it's probably a good idea to set up a "wash" station, so guests can be sure to clean their hands before holding the new baby. Again, this is not a stock up on baby good's type of shower, but it's almost unheard of to show up to a celebratory event empty-handed. This day is meant to be about the new mom and sweet new baby. You do not have to have games, or a structured schedule of events... just yummy drinks, light refreshments, good conversation, and a chance to hold the new baby girl. I had already bought and planed to play "The Price is Right~ Baby Edition". So I am still going to do that. I had a menu already planned, which I am still sticking to, mostly:
"Sip & See" Menu
Sandwiches: Chicken Salad on Mini Croissants
Cucumber Spread on Rounds
Pineapple 1/2 Circles
Ham on Brown Sugar Bread w/ cinnamon butter
Tuna (?)
Crunchy P"Nut Butter on Whole Wheat (for kids)
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Salads: Bow Tie Pasta w/ Balsamic Vinaigrette
Deviled Eggs
Veggie Tray w/dip
Fruit (Not sure b/c I'm not doing it.)
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Desserts: "Baby Carriage" Cake
Petite For's
Godiva Brownies (?)
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Beverages: Punch (not sure of flavor b/c someone else is doing it.)
Peach Tea
Homemade Lemonade
Bottled Water
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For Thank-you Gifts I am making pink baby carriage cookies place in a cellophane bag tied with "It's A Girl" pink ribbon and a Thank-you that says, "Thank-you for coming to Sip & See and meet Me! Grace Kathryn
OK ~ All you hostesses out there, tell me what you think: Too much food? Not enough food? Just right? Add something? Drop Something? Be honest. . . you want hurt my feelings.
As always TIA and for reading this rather long blog,
Sonya aka "Skunkee"
Thank-you Gift - Cookies have her initials on them.
Gracie's Moses Basket
Grace Kathryn - 5 days old
Gracie's Sip & See Carriage Cake