Silly ole Flu bug... 
 
Oct. 15, 2009 6:11 am 
Updated: Oct. 15, 2009 10:17 pm
Good Morning All.

Last night my daughter took my 9 yo grandbabypie (Arianna) to baton lessons.  She has lessons every weeknight except one as she competes.  Last night, however, 4 out of 10 girls in her class did not show up because of the "flu".  One of the girls entire family has been "quarantined" by the health Department because everyone is sick with the flu and all are confirmed cases of the H1N1 (swine flu) virus.

Katie brought the children up to my house this past Monday to celebrate my birthday and of course the southernGma does not turn down hugs and kisses from the babies!  Arianna's 6 yo cutiepie brother (Dylan) was running a temp at bedtime last night.  We don't know if he has the flu but his chances are great because he goes with mommy to take his sister to baton lessons and plays with the other girls siblings as they wait for the class to end.  His sweet face looked a bit "flushed" when he was here Monday but he was his usual perky, active self; no complaints, no whiney attitude, just "normal".  And, at that time, no one knew of the other children and their families being sick.

My husband came home last night and said half his office was sick and Tuesday he complained of a scratchy throat.  Great. 

Now the fun begins.  

I walk around with a can of disinfectant spray.  I have a newly, well-stocked medicine cabinet and, needlesstosay, a well stocked pantry and freezer lest the need for the southernGma's chicken soup arises.  Is that "need" here?  I dunno but extra precautions appear to be in order but somehow I feel as though the horse is already out of the barn so why close the door now?  I have preached "wash your hands" at every opportunity, "sneeze into the crook of your arm", "use forearms to push open doors" where applicable, and more, much more; all that stuff that we know to be beneficial when it comes to preventing the spread of germs.  My daughter preaches the same sermon.  I wish more people would. 

I am concerned that I, or the DH may have been exposed simply by the cart at the grocery store, the bunch of bananas we purchased, or the gas pump handle or the thousand and one ways anyone at anytime picks up germs. 

I'm not worried about us so much, but the little guys are a whole new ballgame.  I care for a neighbor's 4 month old princess (my newest Honey) who has Downs syndrome and an immune system that is not quite up to par.  For her sake, and ours, I wsh my hands as though it were a religious rite of passage and perform all those extra tasks to make my home as germ free as possible where it counts the most, IMHO. 

Don't look at the blinds that probably should have been taken down in the early spring to be washed.  Let's leave the overhead fans running so you don't see the dust on those either.  The bathrooms are clean, the kitchen is in really good shape and since we don't eat off the floor, oh well!   

You young moms, or moms to be, have such a tremendously important job to do.  Some of you have fulltime, out of the home jobs to go to.  Exposure to illness will come at you from every direction and you have to be on your toes to protect and guard your babies as much as is humanly possible.  A job in and of itself, no doubt.   I admire your sticktoitiveness and your amazing ability to give a new meaning to "multi-tasking"!!  Us older moms employ many of the new ideas that you have invented and shared with  us and the sweet part is that they work

Be vigilant, not fearful and do all those things you know to be proper in the care of yourself and your families.  Know that you are not alone and that information is readily available and when you need a smart and fast answer, your AR family has "been there and done that" and they are ready to assist you.  

There's only so much we can do but I want to do it right.  I cannot prevent disease from happening but I want to lessen and cut short its stay if ever it finds my home and, eventually, it will.  I want to be the good Girl Scout, okay Boy Scout and be prepared.  

By the way... Soups on, you're invited!!

Love and hugs,
Gail
 
Comments
Daiseyland 
Oct. 15, 2009 6:58 am
I pray that you and your family and community will weather this flu storm. It sounds like you are doing whatever you can to conquer it. I hope you have had your regular flu shot. I heard on the news that it might help with some degree of immunity to the H1N1. My mother became a nurse in the 1920's because when she was a child, her baby brother died of the influenza that took so many people in the early 1900's. The only way they could fight it was with rest, good nursing, and keeping everything clean. They had no anti-biotics at that time or flu shots. So my mom was a fanatic about covering a cough - always had a hankie handy (they had to boil them when they were washed to disinfect them, no bleach yet). The one tip I still follow is to wear gloves in public. She always had those neat cotton gloves in several colors to match her coat and hat. I think those are pratices that should make a comeback. Also, carry those wipie things in your purse. The supermarkets around here have disinfectant wipes next to the doors when you enter to wipe down the carriage handles. Most important: Moms, do not let your children eat in supermarkets! It is instant hand-to-mouth, and a very bad habit. You loose control over the sanitary conditions they eat under, they get used to taking food from strangers, and they are walking and eating which is dangerous. My daughter saved a Girl Scout at camp who was choking on candy she was chomping on while they were walking. They should wash their hands before and after they eat, and eat sitting, at a table or counter that is cleaned before and after meals. Not in cars, stores, etc. When we were sick, mom made us stay in our beds, in our rooms. We were encouraged to get rest and not hang out in the common areas "spreading our germs around" as my mom would say. It made sense, and it was easier to control the clutter and cleaning necessary to keep the germs down. I did give both of my brothers chicken pox. They deserved it. They both got sick at the same time and drove my mom crazy. Both of my twins got chicken pox when they were in diapers. I thought it was the worse diaper rash ever - but that's where the pox appeared first. Two sick babies was hard to handle. No one slept. I wish I had you for a neighbor then. Making your chicken soup ahead sounds like a great idea. I shared that with my hubby over oatmeal this am, and a big smile came over his face. What a great idea! He said. Foodies unite to save the world! I'm gonna make some soup for him and my freezer now, too. Thanks for the idea, and hope all's well.
 
Oct. 15, 2009 8:50 am
My daughter had it several weeks ago. She had a 101.1 fever. She did not get to sick, but the pediatrician said this is how it is presenting itself in AZ- sore throat, stomach ache, head ache and fever. Go to the drug store and get a bottle of Hibiclens. It will be on the bottom shelf in a tiffany blue bottle. It kills the H1N1 virus and the regular flu. Wash your hands every morning with it and it will continue to kill bugs for 6 hours. Go to this link to learn more: http://www.hibiclens.com/swine_flu_information.html
 
Oct. 15, 2009 10:17 pm
Good sound advise from Gramma. Children, are you listening? Good idea too on the make ahead soup. I'm stealing that idea.
 
 
 
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Like so many other moms, I had to plan wisely for time to take part in my daughter's school activities. I was fortunate that I could take time off work to be there for her. Now that I've retired and can spend time with my grand babies, I never let an opportunity pass by without camera in hand. Guess that's what started my scrapbooking addiction. Family time, big cookouts and teaching the kids about the "unhurried" side of life is what I'm compelled to do.
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I love to bake. The wonderful aroma of a roast in the oven or something wonderful in the crockpot that wafts throughout the house and welcomes my husband when he comes home from work are my favorite things to cook. Being empty nesters I still find it difficult to cook for just the 2 of us. But then, I love being able to share with a neighbor or with the kids to help them with a meal after they've worked all day. Then there are the desserts; cakes, cookies, and pies.
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Being an East Coast Tarheel I remember all the times my Gramma let me help in her kitchen from the time I could climb into a chair and onto the table to watch her every move. Those old traditions and downhome recipes are a big part of my life. Comforting soul food from the southland and now and then a crowd pleasing surprise I've cooked up from my collection of church based and women's league cookbooks.
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I once had a small catering business I ran out of my home. The menu choices were always popular, well suited to the event and although the work was hard and time consuming, the many compliments and rave reviews always made it worthwhile.
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I remember my first attempt at cooking a pot of Navy pea beans which was one of my favorites as a child. I was living several hundred miles away from my mother, the greatest cook in the world, and called and asked her how much milk you put into the beans to make the white sauce. She could never answer me because she was laughing so hard. When she was able to talk, she called back and told me the "milky looking sauce" came from cooking the beans until they were done and the "sauce" would be there. All I had to do was not let the water boil out of the beans! Everytime I cook them I remember that and still can picture my mother's face as she couldn't help but laugh at what I thought was her "miracle bean sauce"!
 
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