I'm a mom,grandma daughter sister stay home instead of holding a job, thats the way my husband likes it so I cook and babysit I think everyone likes coming home to the smell of cooking Chicken Flautas,cassaroles stir frys baking at christmas with grandchildren,we play music and dance around the kitchen and I teach them to cook and have fun with it if it dosn't turn out perfect Oh well as long as it tastes good and we enjoy being together to me thats all I really care about they all love cooking with gramma and being together mother-in-law asked for my recipe for mac-n-cheese and there wasn't one because I had improvised 50 yrs ago first cooked for my in-laws my husband's father threw the plate full of food across the table at me, I was all of 17, needless to say Inever cooked for them with good grace again